😒 Goodbye Resentment,
😍 Hello Romance
There’s no blowout fight. No betrayal. Just... the slow fade.
You love your partner, but somehow, you’ve become more like co-parents and roommates than lovers. You manage schedules, negotiate bedtimes, and tag-team logistics—but the spark? The desire? It’s buried under laundry piles, mental load, and low-level resentment.
You wonder: Is this just how it goes after kids? After 10 years together? Are we even compatible anymore—or are we just surviving?
And here’s the thing no one tells you: when desire disappears, everything feels harder. The parenting. The housework. The emotional labor. It’s like trying to row a boat with one oar.
But it doesn’t have to be this way. You don’t need a new partner. You need a new dynamic. One where chemistry leads, connection deepens, and the butterflies come back—without starting from scratch.
🧨 The mental load grows.
🧨 The resentment simmers.
🧨 You start to wonder, “Is this just what long-term love becomes?"
When you join Desire Lab, you won’t just talk about your relationship—you’ll start to feel it again.
You'll reignite the bond that made you fall in love in the first place—through play, polarity, mystery, laughter, and just the right amount of sexy rebellion.
Because desire does what therapy can’t:
✨ Softens resentment
✨ Builds emotional gravity
✨ Makes you want to touch again
✨ Turns roommates into lovers
Instant access to our private community of like-minded, emotionally intelligent women who are reigniting connection in their marriages—without the husband-bashing, victim talk, or cliché advice. Ask bold questions and feel deeply supported by women who get it. You're not alone anymore.
"Amazing and transformational. You have saved our marriage. Thank you so much!"
This isn’t therapy. It’s tough love coaching—straight talk with a mission. Unlike agnostic therapists who don’t care if your marriage survives or dissolves, I do. I’ve been married nearly 20 years, and my life’s work is helping families stay together—stronger, closer, more in love. These sessions aren’t about endless venting or soft validation. I give you the hard truths, the bold mindset shifts, and the no-BS reframe your friends are too scared to say. Think of it as your monthly truth serum—spicy, soul-jolting, and exactly what you need to stop circling the same old issues and start actually building desire, connection, and power couple energy.
"This is one of the best things I did for myself, for my family. Life c hanging is no exaggeration. I have gained so many valuable mindset changes I feel so empowered." - Tila
“When I joined, I was ready to give up on my marriage. Today my marriage has had a complete overhaul! It's practically a different marriage altogether.”
(Lock in this price now—rates go up soon.)
✅ No Contract. Cancel anytime.
✅ No therapy. No awkward convos.
✅ Proven tools to become his magnet again.
Desire Lab is just $49/month—less than the cost of one therapy session, and about 1/100th of a divorce. You get monthly experiments, date night challenges, live coaching, and 24/7 community. Total value? Over $3,000. Your price? $49. You’re welcome. 😉
Absolutely. Desire Lab is designed for you. You can spark massive shifts in your relationship without dragging him to therapy, starting awkward convos, or forcing him to “work on things.” Your energy leads. He’ll feel the difference.
Nope. This is about magnetism. We’re talking flirtation, energy, presence, polarity, and feminine-masculine tension. That might lead to sex—but the real win is feeling desired, seen, and alive again in your own skin.
15–30 minutes a week. That’s it. You’ll get one experiment, one date challenge, and a coaching call. Small changes. Huge shifts. You’re busy—we get it. This is designed to slide into your real life.
The community is totally private, off social media, and optional. Nothing is shared unless you choose to engage. No group therapy vibes—just smart women getting it done.
Desire Lab is a membership designed to keep that simmer going. Spark and re-spark chemistry, learn to fan the flames of passion in the long term and work on improving your intimate connection and your deep bond. Every month you receive a brand new experiment, and a date-script, plus a deep dive, extra juicy and raw group coaching session with me where we tackle: what might be giving you the ick and how to get that lovin' feeling back. It's fun. It's fast-paced. It's playful. You'll love it.
Married-University is entirely different. A 12-week course with lifetime access - this is the university degree you never got on how to create the marriage you want with the partner you've got. You'll learn the hard skills you didn't see at home for key mindsets and powerful communication skills and you'll elevate your marriage in four key areas, as friends, lovers, co-parents, and partners. Married-U is bingeable, a video course with journals AND live coaching and many powerful bonuses - but it is not a membership. It's a one-time investment and a self-study course.
Desire Lab is essentially:
A) The community component of Married-U. This is where you can connect with other students and pool wisdom and camaraderie.
B) The ongoing maintenance of what you learn in Married-U. After you go through the program initially, you will need to keep practicing and keep things fresh and full of desire - that's where Desire Lab comes in.
These two complement each other perfectly! I'll see you on the inside!
Desire Lab is complimentary with any faith. We are not affiliated with any religion and the curriculum and coaching are not based on any particular faith. We have members from every major religion, and members from no religion. In fact, our team is comprised of Jewish, Christian, Muslim and Atheist parents - yes, really. We celebrate this diversity. However, all of our content is designed to help you to live your unique values and we encourage you to create a home culture that deeply reflects your belief system and way of life. One thing we have absolute faith in is YOU!
Perfect. Desire Lab will supercharge what you’re learning and unlock shifts that therapy alone can’t touch. Think of this as the spark plug to everything else.
Yes. We’re not into guilt trips or fine print. Cancel anytime in just a couple of clicks. No questions asked (but we’ll miss you!).