Inside The Program

Desire Lab Will Help You

Be That Woman Again.

✅ The flirty, playful, sexy, carefree one
✅ The madly in love, can’t-keep-her-hands-off-him one
✅ The happy, radiant, #blessed one

"I’m an eternal romantic—and Desire Lab reminded me to live my love story fully, even with no guarantees. Your grandma’s story made me cry. It reminded me that lasting love is possible—and worth aiming for."

- Jennifer

"Desire Lab is the BEST course I’ve ever taken from you—hands down. It’s been highly effective. My desire number is finally at a 9 or 10… FINALLY!!"

- Tanya

"I LOVE Desire Lab because I need constant reminders of what really matters. Even after reading books and taking other marriage courses, this is the one that keeps me aligned, inspired, and actually doing the work. It’s so good and so relevant."

- Galina

The Problem:

😒 Goodbye Resentment,
😍 Hello Romance

There’s no blowout fight. No betrayal. Just... the slow fade.
You love your partner, but somehow, you’ve become more like co-parents and roommates than lovers. You manage schedules, negotiate bedtimes, and tag-team logistics—but the spark? The desire? It’s buried under laundry piles, mental load, and low-level resentment.

You wonder: Is this just how it goes after kids? After 10 years together? Are we even compatible anymore—or are we just surviving?

And here’s the thing no one tells you: when desire disappears, everything feels harder. The parenting. The housework. The emotional labor. It’s like trying to row a boat with one oar.

But it doesn’t have to be this way. You don’t need a new partner. You need a new dynamic. One where chemistry leads, connection deepens, and the butterflies come back—without starting from scratch.

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🧨 The mental load grows.

🧨 The resentment simmers.

🧨 You start to wonder, “Is this just what long-term love becomes?"

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Is this just the fate of couples after babies?

Nope. It’s just what happens when desire is neglected.

The Solution:

😍 Desire Lab 😍

When you join Desire Lab, you won’t just talk about your relationship—you’ll start to feel it again.

You'll reignite the bond that made you fall in love in the first place—through play, polarity, mystery, laughter, and just the right amount of sexy rebellion.

Because desire does what therapy can’t:
✨ Softens resentment
✨ Builds emotional gravity
✨ Makes you want to touch again
✨ Turns roommates into lovers

"Before joining Desire Lab, I felt like my marriage was dead. I had lost the connection and love with my husband, and I didn’t believe it could get better. But Avital helped me see we could wake up the butterflies again. I learned to communicate more honestly, without judgment, and my husband responded by changing his language too—so I didn’t feel disrespected or ignored anymore. Now when I meet a woman struggling, I tell her: there is hope. This course truly changes lives—not just for couples, but for their kids too. Thank you, Avital."

💗 Nataly T

"Being part of Desire Lab and Married-U turned my world upside down—in the best way. After years focused on raising our son, I realized I needed to reconnect with my partner. I’d heard the stories of women leaving to find something new—but Avital showed me the most meaningful work is building a great love story with the man I already have. I started at a 0 on the desire scale and now I’m blooming at a 7. This is the investment of a lifetime."

❤️ Ana

Desire Lab and MarriedU completely transformed my marriage. I’ll never forget Avital saying we only get “2 hours a month” to be in a mood—that was a wake-up call. At the time, my husband and I were angry every day. But I followed her advice, and everything changed. Now we rarely fight, we prioritize connection and intimacy, and even without knowing about the course, my husband started showing up differently too. We went from a 4/10 to a 9/10. So much less resentment. So much more joy. This program changed my life.

💫 Chelsey

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Try Your First Month Now!

🧪 Monthly Experiment

Unlock your power to shift the energy at home. Each month, you’ll get a simple, science-backed challenge that rewires your mindset, upgrades your connection, and awakens the chemistry—without needing your partner on board.

💋Monthly Date Challenge

Reignite the spark and build irresistible tension. These creative, playful prompts turn ordinary evenings into unforgettable moments. No therapy talk—just fun, flirtation, and magnetic connection.

🔥 24/7 community support

Instant access to our private community of like-minded, emotionally intelligent women who are reigniting connection in their marriages—without the husband-bashing, victim talk, or cliché advice. Ask bold questions and feel deeply supported by women who get it. You're not alone anymore.

No Therapy | Guaranteed Results | Your Partner Doesn't Even Have to Know

Yes! I'm Done Waiting For Change!

"Amazing and transformational. You have saved our marriage. Thank you so much!"

- Tara

...and of course:

Monthly Coaching Sessions with Avital

This isn’t therapy. It’s tough love coaching—straight talk with a mission. Unlike agnostic therapists who don’t care if your marriage survives or dissolves, I do. I’ve been married nearly 20 years, and my life’s work is helping families stay together—stronger, closer, more in love. These sessions aren’t about endless venting or soft validation. I give you the hard truths, the bold mindset shifts, and the no-BS reframe your friends are too scared to say. Think of it as your monthly truth serum—spicy, soul-jolting, and exactly what you need to stop circling the same old issues and start actually building desire, connection, and power couple energy.

"This is one of the best things I did for myself, for my family. Life c hanging is no exaggeration. I have gained so many valuable mindset changes I feel so empowered." - Tila

“When I joined, I was ready to give up on my marriage. Today my marriage has had a complete overhaul! It's practically a different marriage altogether.”

- Chelsea

🖤 Here's Everything You Get Inside Desire Lab

The spark isn’t gone. It just needs fuel. 🔥

✅ Monthly Desire Experiments

Science-backed micro-shifts to rebuild polarity, reignite chemistry, and shift the energy at home—without him needing to participate.

(~~$997~~ Value)

INCLUDED

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✅ Monthly Date Night Challenge

Playful, surprising, and just spicy enough to make you blush. These guided mini-missions transform routine evenings into electric connection.

($~~997~~ Value)

INCLUDED

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✅ Monthly Live Group Coaching

Get direct support from Avital each month to unlock blocks, fine-tune polarity, and personalize your path forward.

(~~$1,500~~ Value)

INCLUDED

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✅ Private 24/7 Community

A judgment-free space for wise, emotionally honest women. No husband-bashing. Just support, tools, and sisterhood.

(~~$499~~ Value)

INCLUDED

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~~💥 Total Value: $3,993~~

Your Price: $49/month

(Lock in this price now—rates go up soon.)

✅ No Contract. Cancel anytime.

✅ No therapy. No awkward convos.

✅ Proven tools to become his magnet again.

When You Join Desire Lab Today,
You're getting $3,993 in Value.
Every Month

(for only a fraction of the cost).

Yes, I Want to Feel Desired Again

FAQ

❓How much does it cost?

Desire Lab is just $49/month—less than the cost of one therapy session, and about 1/100th of a divorce. You get monthly experiments, date night challenges, live coaching, and 24/7 community. Total value? Over $3,000. Your price? $49. You’re welcome. 😉

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❓Can I do this if my partner doesn’t know or isn’t on board?

Absolutely. Desire Lab is designed for you. You can spark massive shifts in your relationship without dragging him to therapy, starting awkward convos, or forcing him to “work on things.” Your energy leads. He’ll feel the difference.

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❓What if our issues feel bigger than desire?

Most couples think they need to “talk it out”—but actually, they need to want each other again. Desire does the heavy lifting. When the spark returns, so does playfulness, softness, and teamwork. Start with the chemistry. Watch everything else shift.

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❓Is this just about sex?

Nope. This is about magnetism. We’re talking flirtation, energy, presence, polarity, and feminine-masculine tension. That might lead to sex—but the real win is feeling desired, seen, and alive again in your own skin.

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❓How much time does it take each month?

15–30 minutes a week. That’s it. You’ll get one experiment, one date challenge, and a coaching call. Small changes. Huge shifts. You’re busy—we get it. This is designed to slide into your real life.

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❓Is it private? Will anyone see I joined?

The community is totally private, off social media, and optional. Nothing is shared unless you choose to engage. No group therapy vibes—just smart women getting it done.

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❓What's the difference between Married-U and Desire Lab?

Desire Lab is a membership designed to keep that simmer going. Spark and re-spark chemistry, learn to fan the flames of passion in the long term and work on improving your intimate connection and your deep bond. Every month you receive a brand new experiment, and a date-script, plus a deep dive, extra juicy and raw group coaching session with me where we tackle: what might be giving you the ick and how to get that lovin' feeling back. It's fun. It's fast-paced. It's playful. You'll love it.

Married-University is entirely different. A 12-week course with lifetime access - this is the university degree you never got on how to create the marriage you want with the partner you've got. You'll learn the hard skills you didn't see at home for key mindsets and powerful communication skills and you'll elevate your marriage in four key areas, as friends, lovers, co-parents, and partners. Married-U is bingeable, a video course with journals AND live coaching and many powerful bonuses - but it is not a membership. It's a one-time investment and a self-study course.

Desire Lab is essentially:
A) The community component of Married-U. This is where you can connect with other students and pool wisdom and camaraderie.
B) The ongoing maintenance of what you learn in Married-U. After you go through the program initially, you will need to keep practicing and keep things fresh and full of desire - that's where Desire Lab comes in.

These two complement each other perfectly! I'll see you on the inside!

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❓Is Desire Lab faith-based?

Desire Lab is complimentary with any faith. We are not affiliated with any religion and the curriculum and coaching are not based on any particular faith. We have members from every major religion, and members from no religion. In fact, our team is comprised of Jewish, Christian, Muslim and Atheist parents - yes, really. We celebrate this diversity. However, all of our content is designed to help you to live your unique values and we encourage you to create a home culture that deeply reflects your belief system and way of life. One thing we have absolute faith in is YOU!

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❓What if we’re already in therapy?

Perfect. Desire Lab will supercharge what you’re learning and unlock shifts that therapy alone can’t touch. Think of this as the spark plug to everything else.

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