Who prepared you for this? Not the books. Not the gentle parenting community. Not your own parents who raised you in a completely different world. Your teenager has a smartphone, a social life you can't see, opinions you didn't give them, and a door they know how to slam. The decisions you're making right now are not small ones. And unlike every other important job in your life — there's no one in a uniform who looks you in the eye and says you're doing it right.
THE COMPLETE PARENTING SYSTEM
Your Teen is Extra.
Your Teen is Extra.
The Support Should Be Too.
The Support Should Be Too.
The parents who get this right don't do it alone.
The parents who get this right don't do it alone.
FOR PARENTS OF KIDS 10 AND UP
Your teen is extra.
Your teen is extra.
The Support Should Be Too.
The Support Should Be Too.
The parents who get this right don't do it alone.
The parents who get this right don't do it alone.
Doors close soon. Next opening: one year from now.
Doors close soon. Next opening: one year from now.
You love your kids. And right now, the weight of raising a tween or teen is crushing.
You love your kids. And right now, the weight of raising a tween or teen is crushing.
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You want to be warm AND have standards. But with a teenager? Nobody showed you how to hold both.
You want to be warm AND have standards. But with a teenager? Nobody showed you how to hold both.
You swing. Patient, patient, patient — then you snap. You cave on the phone rules, feel guilty, crack down harder, cave again. You know it's confusing for them. You hate the oscillation. You've been told that warmth and authority are opposites — that if you hold the line, you'll damage the relationship. They're not opposites. But nobody gave you the framework for this age.
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You know what you believe. So why does your teenager make you feel like you know nothing?
You know what you believe. So why does your teenager make you feel like you know nothing?
You have values. You have standards. But by Wednesday the rules have slipped, the phone is back, and your teenager has negotiated you into a corner again. When your head hits the pillow the question creeps in — am I losing them?
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💡 You're not failing. You're parenting a teenager without the right tools. That ends today.
💡 You're not failing. You're parenting a teenager without the right tools. That ends today.
"My son is definitely starting to show t(w)een behavior now...this is harder.
And after watching the intro and especially the vision video, I'm so glad I did invest in the Teen Studio!
It really gives a new insight. I'm very much looking forward to diving in again this (7th!) year!
Thank you Avital, for all your hard work! 💕"
- Dorine
"I just watched the introduction to the STUDIO TEEN curriculum. It sure did not disappoint!!
Right up there with the rest of it.
Man, am I glad that Avital decided to do this extra stuff. Our eldest will be 10 this summer and we (hubby and I) are noticing quite the change in him lately. Fair to say that I felt VERY addressed by the intro 😄🫨😳...
Was already worth the upgrade. Esp. seeing that I have 0 experience with raising teenagers and will soon have 3 at once 😵💫🤯😵.
Thanks for having our back, Avital! 💖"
- Sarah
"I was so on the fence about whether or not to join the studio teen. I had pretty much decided not to this year when I saw another post about how great it was and decided to try it out.
SO GOOD!!
The monthly content alone is totally worth the price! If you (like me) have a tween or teen then you should definitely join!"
-Meriam
If your child is 10 or older, this is for you - in the thick of it.
If your child is 10 or older, this is for you - in the thick of it.
You're not imagining it.
Parenting a teen is actually harder.
You're not imagining it.
Parenting a teen is actually harder.
Not because you're doing it wrong. Because the whole game changes.
The brain your child had at 8 is not the brain they have at 13. The prefrontal cortex — the part responsible for impulse control, decision-making, and emotional regulation — is under active construction until age 25. You are not parenting a small adult. You are parenting a neurological work-in-progress who is simultaneously desperate for your approval and mortified by your existence.
And you're doing it in a landscape that would have broken the parents who raised you.
Add to that:
- 📱 Average teen spends 8+ hours a day on screens
- 😔 1 in 3 teenage girls reports persistent sadness or hopelessness
- 😰 70% of teens say anxiety is their biggest problem
- 🔒 The average age of first exposure to pornography is now 12
This is the world your child is navigating. Right now. While you're making dinner.
You need more than good intentions. You need a plan. And you need a room where you can ask the questions you're too scared to Google.
You're not imagining it.
Parenting a teen is actually harder.
You're not imagining it.
Parenting a teen is actually harder.
Not because you're doing it wrong. Because the whole game changes.
The brain your child had at 8 is not the brain they have at 13. The prefrontal cortex — the part responsible for impulse control, decision-making, and emotional regulation — is under active construction until age 25. You are not parenting a small adult. You are parenting a neurological work-in-progress who is simultaneously desperate for your approval and mortified by your existence.
And you're doing it in a landscape that would have broken the parents who raised you.
Add to that:
- 📱 Average teen spends 8+ hours a day on screens
- 😔 1 in 3 teenage girls reports persistent sadness or hopelessness
- 😰 70% of teens say anxiety is their biggest problem
- 🔒 The average age of first exposure to pornography is now 12
This is the world your child is navigating. Right now. While you're making dinner.
You need more than good intentions. You need a plan. And you need a room where you can ask the questions you're too scared to Google.
The teen years are not the time to loosen your grip on your family culture. They're the time to strengthen it.
The teen years are not the time to loosen your grip on your family culture. They're the time to strengthen it.
SOUND FAMILIAR?
SOUND FAMILIAR?
→ You're losing them to their phone and you don't know how to fight it. Not because you haven't tried. Because you don't have a framework that actually holds. Every rule you make gets negotiated into nothing.
→ They've gone quiet. You don't know if that's normal or a warning sign. The kid who used to tell you everything now grunts. You're watching from the outside of their life and you don't know how to get back in.
→ You're oscillating between too strict and too permissive — and they know it. You crack down, then feel guilty, then let it go. They've clocked the pattern. The authority you need isn't landing because you keep undermining it yourself.
→ You're afraid the window is closing. You can feel it. The years when you could actually shape this are narrowing. And you don't want to look back and realizing you spent them reacting.
There are 3 key principles to ground you throughout the tweens and teens. You'll learn them all - in depth - in the Studio Teen.
There are 3 key principles to ground you throughout the tweens and teens. You'll learn them all - in depth - in the Studio Teen.
Hi. I'm Avital. I'm in it with you. I have tweens and teens at home, right now.
Hi. I'm Avital. I'm in it with you. I have tweens and teens at home, right now.
I've read every book. Taken every course. And I still stood in my kitchen one night wondering why nothing was working.
I have five kids. Two tweens and a teenager under my roof right now, this week, today. I'm not teaching this from a stage somewhere having figured it all out. I'm in it with you — same chaos, same questions, same 11pm spirals.
I built Hi Fam because I was the most well-read, well-intentioned mother in the room and I still felt lost. And I built Studio Teen specifically because when my oldest hit adolescence, everything I thought I knew about parenting stopped working overnight.
The love doesn't change. The warmth doesn't change. But the how changes completely. And nobody warned me about that.
This is what I wish someone had handed me when it started. Consider it handed.
It's time to go from manager to consultant.
It's time to go from manager to consultant.
Try it for 30 days. Do the work. If you don't feel the shift — full refund.
Try it for 30 days. Do the work. If you don't feel the shift — full refund.
We are so confident the Studio will work for you that we back it completely. Try it for 30 days. Do the work. If you don't feel the shift — email us and we'll refund you in full, minus a small processing fee. No questions asked. The only risk is another year of building without a blueprint.
STUDIO TEEN
STUDIO TEEN
Your step-by-step system to raise teens with values, resilience and common sense.
Your step-by-step system to raise teens with values, resilience and common sense.
Inside, you’ll learn exactly how to:
✅ Create a family culture that lasts—so your teens inherit your values, not the Kardashian's.
✅ Set clear, firm limits with love—without guilt or second-guessing yourself.
✅ Build unshakable family connection—so your teen trusts you more than Mr. Beast.
✅ Raise confident, independent kids—who are ready for real life, not just comfort zones.
✅ Stop Starting over —finally have a system that holds through hard weeks, busy seasons, and the ordinary Tuesday that usually undoes everything.
📌 Our Proven System Has Helped Thousands of Families Take Back Their Parenting Authority.
Ready to take a look inside?
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"I got more out of one session with you
than I did from 10 years of therapy."
- Liz, Studio Member
You're probably here because of Avital's tough love parenting advice or her no-nonsense YouTube videos and podcast — the ones that save parents years of second-guessing.
Now imagine having that — live, personal, and directed at your specific family — every single month.
Hi, I'm Avital.
I built this community because I know exactly what it feels like to be the most well-read, well-intentioned mother in the room — and still feel completely blindsided by your own teenager.
I've made every mistake. I've caved when I should have held the line. I've lost it over something small and missed the thing that actually mattered. I've had the door slammed in my face and spent the next hour wondering what I did wrong — when the answer was nothing. That's just Tuesday with a teenager.
I have five kids. Two tweens and a teenager under my roof right now, this week, today. I'm not teaching this from a stage somewhere having figured it all out. I'm in it with you — same chaos, same questions, same 11pm spirals wondering if I'm losing them.
Every month I sit down with our community and we go into it. The real stuff.
The teenager who's gone completely quiet. The one who's negotiating every single rule into the ground. The phone that's eating your child alive and the conversation you don't know how to start. The behaviour that feels personal even though you know — intellectually — it isn't.
No topic is off limits. No question is too small or too embarrassing. You bring your real situation — the thing you can't say in your local moms group, the question you've been too afraid to Google — and we work through it together.
This is not a pre-recorded course you consume alone at midnight.
This is a living, breathing coaching relationship — with a mother who is parenting teenagers alongside you and has spent two decades figuring out what actually works.
Every single month
No fluff. No scripts. Just real talk, tough love, and the clarity that usually takes years of trial and error to find.
"This is my 5th year in the program, and I can’t imagine parenting without it. The support and structure have been invaluable in keeping my family on track with our values and connection."
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Your Family Project
Your Family Project
Every season. One project. One real transformation for you and your teen.
Designed for your actual life — not the imaginary one.
Every season. One project. One real transformation for you and your teen.
Designed for your actual life — not the imaginary one.
#FamFeast
#FamFeast
Establish a weekly, tech-free family meal that brings connection and values to the table.
#TeenCrush
#TeenCrush
Raise teens who are equipped to handle puberty, crushes and all manner of temptation with common sense and values.
#LikeableKids
#LikeableKids
Raise teens others love to be around—teach the balance of kindness, confidence, and social awareness without turning them into people pleasers.
#FamVacay
#FamVacay
Turn trips into traditions—plan meaningful family vacations that bring more connection, less chaos, and memories your children will carry for life.
#RitesOfAge
#RitesOfAge
Turn a milestone into a memory—design a meaningful coming-of-age experience that gives your child a deep sense of identity, responsibility, and belonging.
#HostessEnergy
#HostessEnergy
Feel at ease opening your home—release self-doubt and step into a warm, confident hostess identity that draws people in.
#FamHub
#FamHub
Help everyone get on the same page with a centralized system for all your lists, schedules, and to-do's.
#TeamHuddle
#TeamHuddle
Family meetings will become your secret weapon to improving teamwork, collaboration, and bonds.
#FamAlbums
#FamAlbums
Create a beautiful, lasting record of your family’s memories and milestones.
#Masculine Boys
#Masculine Boys
Encourage your boys to build strength, integrity, brotherhood and competence.
#NatureFam
#NatureFam
Get your kids outdoors, exploring, adventuring, and connecting with the world.
#FeminineGirls
#FeminineGirls
Encourage your girls to build resilience, stability, sisterhood and a positive body image.
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📌 No guesswork. Just real transformation.
When you join, we'll help you choose the perfect first project based on where your family is right now.
📌 No guesswork. Just real transformation.
When you join, we'll help you choose the perfect first project based on where your family is right now.
"It's only my first month with Hi Fam, and I’ve already benefited so much. I tried just ONE reframe, and it was a total game changer for how my kids respond to me."
If you don’t shape your child’s influences, the world will do it for you.
If you don’t shape your child’s influences, the world will do it for you.
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Your Teen Leadership Training
Your Teen Leadership Training
Parenting is leadership. Every month a new training drops — practical, no-fluff, designed to help you lead your family with confidence. 12 trainings a year. One complete system.
Parenting is leadership. Every month a new training drops — practical, no-fluff, designed to help you lead your family with confidence. 12 trainings a year. One complete system.
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Character
Character
Who We Are as a Family
Who We Are as a Family
Your family’s character isn’t just about individual traits—it’s about the vision, atmosphere, and values you cultivate at home and therefore in your teen. This training helps you define your role as a leader, create a home environment that shapes your child’s future, and ensure that the culture inside your home is stronger than the pressures outside of it.
You can't just build a teen's good character—you build a family culture that shapes who they become.
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Culture
Culture
What We Do as a Family
What We Do as a Family
Your daily habits, routines, rituals, and traditions are the foundation of your family culture. This training helps you create a structured yet flexible home life—from weekly rhythms to annual traditions to once-in-a-lifetime rites of passage—that instills meaning, resilience, and a sense of purpose in your kids.
A strong family culture doesn’t just happen. It’s built—one habit, one tradition, one moment at a time.
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Connection
Connection
How We Treat Each Other as a Family
How We Treat Each Other as a Family
A connected family isn’t just one that spends time together—it’s one that knows how to work as a team, how to communicate, and how to support each other. This training teaches practical strategies for bonding, coaching, and building trust, so your kids feel deeply connected to you while learning responsibility and teamwork.
A strong parent-teen bond is a balance of High Expectations and High Support.
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Community
Community
Where We Belong as a Family
Where We Belong as a Family
Your teen isn’t just shaped by your home—they’re shaped by their friends, mentors, and environment. This training helps you be intentional about curating influences, fostering strong friendships, and creating a supportive community where your values are reinforced, not challenged.
If you don’t shape your teen's influences, the world will do it for you.
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"Just wanted to express my gratitude for the workshops. I now feel crystal clear on why creating meaningful family traditions is essential. The tools from Hi Fam Studio have completely changed how I lead my family!"
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Private Community of Like-Minded Parents
Private Community of Like-Minded Parents
Modern motherhood is lonely. You have information but no village. The Hi Fam community is the village you've been looking for.
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"My 'wild child' has finally developed the emotional regulation I always hoped for. My 'needy' child who couldn't do anything alone is now independent and self-sufficient. I'd never be where I am as a mom if it weren't for Hi Fam." — Melissa, 5-year Studio Member
"My 'wild child' has finally developed the emotional regulation I always hoped for. My 'needy' child who couldn't do anything alone is now independent and self-sufficient. I'd never be where I am as a mom if it weren't for Hi Fam." — Melissa, 5-year Studio Member
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"I have truly never experienced such an incredible, diverse, supportive group anywhere, ever."
"I have truly never experienced such an incredible, diverse, supportive group anywhere, ever."
- Carrie
- Carrie
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Drama-Free Environment
So that you can relax, be authentic and share with peace of mind. All posts are sincere, heartfelt and read with the benefit of the doubt. Whilst we're absolutely here for the vulnerable, honest and even painful and taboo topics - we have a zero tolerance policy to cancel culture of any kind of inflammatory remarks.
Like-Minded Parents
Everyone in this group is on a mission to strengthen their family - just like you. Members are from over 100 countries around the world, from every major religion, from every family structure and have kids of every age. What unites us? A dedication to creating a positive family culture. In this we support each other and to this end we come together.
Uplifting & Encouraging
So that we can actually get you results in your real home life - the whole idea of this community is to help you with gentle, loving accountability that will drive you towards your goals. If you need a little vent - we'll hold you a pity party - but then we'll help you to dust off and get back on the horse! We're in your corner - go, go, go!
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"I erased all my other apps. This community is everything."
"I erased all my other apps. This community is everything."
- Shayna
- Shayna
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"This group is THE best! No mom shaming. All help. No criticism. All LOVE! If you’re wondering how to get to the type of life you thought parenting might offer, this is the way."
"This group is THE best! No mom shaming. All help. No criticism. All LOVE! If you’re wondering how to get to the type of life you thought parenting might offer, this is the way."
"If you wish you could offer your kids the a closer experience to the kind of immersive childhood you may have had without so much reliance on digital, this is THE way. If you are looking for a village, this is it. Not paid to say this, but I *have* paid 5 years to be in this group and it’s ALL. The. Things! I found it on an ad like this 5 years ago... I’d never be where I am as a mom now if it weren’t for #HiFam “my wild child” and “willful” and “turbulent” one has finally developed the kids of emotional regulation I have always hoped for her — all thanks to this wonderful inclusive loving group — my “needy” child who can’t do ANYTHING alone is an independent, creative, self-sufficient child. Never been better to have than during these trying times this past year. Literal life saver."
- Melissa
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We are with you, every step of the way.
We are with you, every step of the way.
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Private Community of Like-Minded Parents
Private Community of Like-Minded Parents
Modern motherhood is lonely. You have information but no village. The Hi Fam community is the village you've been looking for.
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"My 'wild child' has finally developed the emotional regulation I always hoped for. My 'needy' child who couldn't do anything alone is now independent and self-sufficient. I'd never be where I am as a mom if it weren't for Hi Fam." — Melissa, 5-year Studio Member
"My 'wild child' has finally developed the emotional regulation I always hoped for. My 'needy' child who couldn't do anything alone is now independent and self-sufficient. I'd never be where I am as a mom if it weren't for Hi Fam." — Melissa, 5-year Studio Member
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"I have truly never experienced such an incredible, diverse, supportive group anywhere, ever."
"I have truly never experienced such an incredible, diverse, supportive group anywhere, ever."
- Carrie
- Carrie
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Drama-Free Environment
So that you can relax, be authentic and share with peace of mind. All posts are sincere, heartfelt and read with the benefit of the doubt. Whilst we're absolutely here for the vulnerable, honest and even painful and taboo topics - we have a zero tolerance policy to cancel culture of any kind of inflammatory remarks.
Like-Minded Parents
Everyone in this group is on a mission to strengthen their family - just like you. Members are from over 100 countries around the world, from every major religion, from every family structure and have kids of every age. What unites us? A dedication to creating a positive family culture. In this we support each other and to this end we come together.
Uplifting & Encouraging
So that we can actually get you results in your real home life - the whole idea of this community is to help you with gentle, loving accountability that will drive you towards your goals. If you need a little vent - we'll hold you a pity party - but then we'll help you to dust off and get back on the horse! We're in your corner - go, go, go!
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"I erased all my other apps. This community is everything."
"I erased all my other apps. This community is everything."
- Shayna
- Shayna
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"This group is THE best! No mom shaming. All help. No criticism. All LOVE! If you’re wondering how to get to the type of life you thought parenting might offer, this is the way."
"This group is THE best! No mom shaming. All help. No criticism. All LOVE! If you’re wondering how to get to the type of life you thought parenting might offer, this is the way."
"If you wish you could offer your kids the a closer experience to the kind of immersive childhood you may have had without so much reliance on digital, this is THE way. If you are looking for a village, this is it. Not paid to say this, but I *have* paid 5 years to be in this group and it’s ALL. The. Things! I found it on an ad like this 5 years ago... I’d never be where I am as a mom now if it weren’t for #HiFam “my wild child” and “willful” and “turbulent” one has finally developed the kids of emotional regulation I have always hoped for her — all thanks to this wonderful inclusive loving group — my “needy” child who can’t do ANYTHING alone is an independent, creative, self-sufficient child. Never been better to have than during these trying times this past year. Literal life saver."
- Melissa
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We are with you, every step of the way.
We are with you, every step of the way.
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"Just wanted to express my gratitude for the workshops. I now feel crystal clear on why creating meaningful family traditions is essential. The tools from Hi Fam Studio have completely changed how I lead my family!"
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Bonuses, Bonuses, Bonuses
Bonuses, Bonuses, Bonuses
Five trainings. Available the moment you join.
For the hardest parts of parenting — the ones nobody prepared you for.
For the hardest parts of parenting — the ones nobody prepared you for.
How to Handle Emotions
Big feelings don’t have to mean big meltdowns. This training teaches you how to coach your child through frustration, disappointment, and anger—without letting emotions take over the household. Learn to stay calm, set a firm yet compassionate tone, and help your child build true emotional resilience instead of endless venting.
How to Set Boundaries
Setting boundaries shouldn’t feel like a constant power struggle. This training helps you set clear, firm, and loving limits—so your child respects your leadership without resentment. Learn how to follow through, hold high expectations, and stay warm and connected while maintaining discipline.
How to Follow Through
You know what you should be doing—so why is it so hard to actually stick to it? This training helps you break through inconsistency, follow through on boundaries, and build habits that actually stick. Whether it’s screen time rules, chores, or bedtime routines, you’ll learn to hold the line with confidence—no nagging or guilt required.
How to Make Any Decision
We make thousands of decisions a day as parents—from small daily choices to major life-changing ones. This training gives you a step-by-step decision-making framework to help you move forward with clarity and confidence—whether it’s about schooling, discipline, technology, or family values. No more second-guessing or analysis paralysis.
How to Reframe Anything!
If your brain keeps tripping you up with stressful thoughts, anxious spirals, or constant overthinking—this series could seriously change your life. In this brain-rewiring training, you'll learn how to see your husband’s laziness, your child’s back talk, the endless chores or sleepless nights completely differently. Get ready to feel lighter, more capable, and way more in control—with a calm mind and a can-do spirit.
Get Started Now - Doors close soon!
Get Started Now - Doors close soon!
Everything you need to lead your family from babyhood through the teen years. One membership. One price.
✅ Monthly Live Office Hours with Avital
(12 sessions per year) – PRICELESS
✅ Quarterly Family Projects
(4 per year) – ($1,500 value)
✅ Monthly Leadership Curriculum
(12 video trainings & PDF guides) – ($1,200 value)
✅ Private Community & Accountability
($1,000 value)
✅ 5 Epic Bonuses - ($2,299 value)
💰 Total Value: Over $7,000!
OR
Get Started Now - Doors close soon!
Get Started Now - Doors close soon!
Everything you need to lead your family from babyhood through the teen years. One membership. One price.
✅ Monthly Live Teen Office Hours with Avital
(12 sessions per year) – PRICELESS
✅ Quarterly Family Projects
(4 per year) – ($1,500 value)
✅ Monthly Teen Leadership Curriculum
(12 video trainings & PDF guides) – ($1,200 value)
✅ Private Community & Accountability
($1,000 value)
✅ 5 Epic Bonuses - ($2,299 value)
💰 Total Value: Over $7,000!
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FAQ
FAQ
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My child is 10 - too early?
My child is 10 - too early?
It's the perfect time. You're ahead of the curve. The habits and frameworks that hold through the hard teen years are the ones built before the storm hits. Get in now.
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How much time does this take?
How much time does this take?
Most members spend 1–2 hours per month on curriculum, plus time on projects as they choose. This is not a course you binge and forget. It's a system you build into your life at your own pace.
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Is this faith-based?
Is this faith-based?
The Studio works alongside any faith. We have members from every major religion — and no religion — across 100+ countries. All curriculum is designed to help you live your specific values, whatever those look like.
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You have more influence than you think. Use it.
You have more influence than you think. Use it.
The teen years go fast. The parents who navigate them well don't do it alone, and they don't do it without a framework. This is yours.
The teen years go fast. The parents who navigate them well don't do it alone, and they don't do it without a framework. This is yours.
More Questions?
More Questions?
Do you have more questions about The Studio Teens?
Email us at hello@hifam.com where our amazing support team of fellow moms are standing by happy to answer any questions you have.
Email us at hello@hifam.com where our amazing support team of fellow moms are standing by happy to answer any questions you have.